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Lots of data, graphs, and interesting thinking, but what sticks out the most:

881 words about "What makes for a stable marriage" and not one of them is "love".

This piece demonstrates two of the most common memes that continue to perpetuate hn:

1. correlation != causation

2. academia != real life

I wonder if OP is married and how the joys and challenges of maintaining a stable marriage for many years would have affected this post.



Of all the things you can objectively measure in the world, I am sure a significant majority would disagree that you can measure love.

It is possible to love someone deeply and still separate. The cause of separation might be out of love.




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